
If you’re struggling with sleep during or after menopause, you’re definitely not alone. Difficulty falling asleep, waking in the middle of the night, or rising too early are among the most common complaints from women in midlife. I’ve personally experienced it all—there were nights I couldn’t fall asleep until 2 a.m., and phases when I’d wake around 2 a.m., toss and turn until 5 a.m., then finally fall back to sleep only to wake up groggy and late. Others have shared that they regularly wake at 4 a.m. and simply can’t return to sleep, leading to shorter, restless nights.
Hormonal changes—especially drops in oestrogen and progesterone—are largely responsible for this disruption. These changes impact not only your sleep-wake cycle, but also body temperature and hot flushes, all of which interfere with quality sleep. Declining levels of these hormones also lower GABA (the calming brain chemical) and melatonin (the sleep hormone), while increasing cortisol (the body’s main stress hormone)—a perfect storm for insomnia.
Over the years, I’ve been on a personal quest to find solutions for these imbalances. That journey has led me to explore a range of supplements aimed at restoring balance, calming the nervous system, and improving overall sleep quality—so I can wake up refreshed, energized, and ready for the day. I’ve also reviewed carbohydrate intake, melatonin, tryptophan, and focused on regulating cortisol rhythms.
Nutrients that Support Sleep in Midlife Women
Sleep issues during menopause are common, but several nutrients can help restore balance. These include magnesium, vitamin D, calcium, potassium, B vitamins (B2, B6, B12), vitamin K2, and zinc. They support everything from melatonin production to nervous system regulation and hormonal balance.
Magnesium
Often referred to as the “relaxation mineral,” magnesium calms the nervous system, relaxes muscles, and supports both falling and staying asleep. It does this by activating GABA, a neurotransmitter that helps the brain wind down [1], while also promoting melatonin production [1] and reducing cortisol—the stress hormone that can interfere with sleep [1,2]. It also helps muscles relax, thereby promoting deeper, uninterrupted rest [1,3].
Clinical studies show that 500 mg of magnesium daily over eight weeks helped older adults fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer [4]. Adequate magnesium levels are linked to better sleep quality, fewer awakenings, longer sleep and even less snoring [5-7].
Key co-factors that enhance magnesium’s effectiveness:
- Vitamin D: Enhances absorption and regulates calcium metabolism [8].
- Vitamin B6: Supports magnesium uptake and neurotransmitter synthesis [9].
- Calcium: Works with magnesium for nerve and muscle function [10].
- Potassium: Aids nerve signalling and muscle relaxation [11].
Vitamin D
While it’s best known for its role in bone health, vitamin D also supports the body’s internal clock and melatonin production. Receptors for vitamin D are found in areas of the brain that control sleep, such as the hypothalamus [12, 13]. Low vitamin D levels (<20 ng/mL) are frequently associated with shorter sleep duration and more frequent sleep disturbances [14]. Your vitamin D blood report may indicate normal levels, but it is important to note that a test typically measures 25-hydroxyvitamin D [25(OH)D], the storage form of vitamin D. While useful for identifying deficiency, it doesn’t reflect how effectively vitamin D is being used at the cellular level.
Supplementing with 1,000 to 7,000 IU daily (preferably vitamin D3) over 8 to 12 weeks has been shown to improve sleep quality. Doses above 4000 IU / day should be monitored by a healthcare provider [15, 16].
For best results, combine vitamin D with:
- Magnesium, which helps activate vitamin D in the body[17].
- Vitamin K2, to ensure calcium is directed to the bones rather than the arteries [18].
- Zinc, which supports the activation of vitamin D receptors [19].
- B vitamins (particularly B2 and B6), which aid in vitamin D metabolismand neurotransmitter production [20].
A practical tip: Take vitamin D with your evening meal to align with nighttime hormonal rhythms, and ensure good hydration (around 2.5L per day) to support kidney function and prevent calcium buildup.
Potassium
Potassium is essential for regulating nerve signals and muscle contractions. Together with magnesium, it can calm the body and help reduce nighttime restlessness and leg cramps—common complaints in midlife women.
Low potassium levels are linked to disrupted sleep architecture, especially in people with high blood pressure, affecting light and REM (dream phase) sleep [22]. Potassium helps maintain healthy blood pressure and supports deeper REM sleep. One study found that combining magnesium and potassium improved cortisol and melatonin balance and reduced severity of insomnia in people type 2 diabetes [23].
Calcium
This mineral works in tandem with magnesium to support melatonin production and reduce fragmented sleep. Low calcium intake has been associated with difficulty falling and staying asleep, while adequate intake appears to promote more restful sleep [24].
B Vitamins (B2, B6, B12)
B vitamins are involved in many sleep-supporting processes:
- B2 (riboflavin) supports vitamin D metabolism and neurotransmitter function [20].
- B6 (pyridoxine) is required to convert tryptophan to serotonin, and then to melatonin—both crucial for calming and sleep [25]. Vitamin B6 also supports vitamin D metabolism and neurotransmitter balance [20].
- B12 helps regulate circadian rhythms and melatonin synthesis, and may be particularly helpful for restoring natural sleep-wake cycles in older adults [26].
Zinc
Zinc supports both melatonin and GABA production in the brain. Low zinc levels have been associated with difficulty falling asleep, anxiety, and poor sleep quality.
Studies show that zinc, in combination with magnesium and melatonin, can improve sleep efficiency and help people fall asleep more easily—especially in older adults [27]. Doses of 30 mg or more over 12 or more weeks have been linked to better overall sleep quality [28].
Vitamins &Minerals – Putting it all Together
Nutrient | Top Food Sources | Best Supplement | Daily Dose | When to Take | Notes |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
Magnesium | Leafy greens, legumes, nuts, seeds, whole grains | Magnesium glycinate or citrate | 400mg – 500mg | Split between dinner and 30–60 minutes before bed | Start with 200mg – higher doses may cause diarrhoea |
Vitamin D | Sunlight, fatty fish, egg yolks, fortified foods | Vitamin D3 (cholecalciferol) | 1,000–5,000 IU | With a fat-containing dinner | Check with a doctor if on medication (e.g., statins) |
Potassium | Fruits, vegetables, legumes, fish, nuts | Potassium citrate or gluconate | 100 mg–200 mg | With dinner | Prefer food sources; supplement only under medical advice |
Calcium | Dairy, sardines, leafy greens, tofu | Calcium citrate or lactate | 1200mg | 300mg–400mg per meal | 240ml of milk = 300mg calcium; reduce supplement if dairy is consumed |
Vitamin B2 | Dairy, eggs, lean meat, green veggies | Riboflavin | 1.1mg – 1.3mg | With a meal | Supports B6 and D metabolism |
Vitamin B6 | Chickpeas, organ meats, potatoes, fortified cereals | Pyridoxine HCL | 1.5mg | Early afternoon or dinner meal | Needed for serotonin and melatonin production |
Vitamin B12 | Animal products, fortified cereals & nutritional yeasts | Methylcobalamin or cyanocobalamin | 2.4 mcg | With vitamin D at dinner | Especially important for vegetarians and vegans |
Vitamin K2 | Green leafy vegetables, eggs, fermented foods, dairy, meat | Menaquinone (K2) | 60–90 mcg | With vitamin D at dinner | Helps direct calcium to bones |
Zinc | Pumpkin seeds, beef, seafood, eggs, legumes, whole grains | Zinc picolinate or bisglycinate | 15–30 mg | With vitamin D at dinner (to avoid nausea) | Don’t exceed 40 mg/day; excess can interfere with copper |
Carbohydrate Matters
Carbohydrates often get a bad rap, but they can actually play a helpful role in sleep—especially when timed right. Eating complex carbohydrates such as whole grains, vegetables, and legumes in the evening can help increase the availability of tryptophan in the brain. Tryptophan is an amino acid your body uses to make serotonin (a mood stabilizer) and melatonin (your sleep hormone), both of which are essential for falling and staying asleep.
This is especially important during menopause, when hormonal shifts can disrupt the body’s circadian rhythm. Choosing the right kinds of carbohydrates at dinner—especially when paired with a small amount of protein—can encourage relaxation and improve sleep quality.
Emerging research shows that eating carbohydrates in the evening, about one to four hours before bed, can reduce the time it takes to fall asleep and improve sleep continuity [31]. For instance, high-glycaemic index (GI) foods like jasmine rice have been shown to help people fall asleep more quickly than low-GI foods or no carbs at all, particularly in individuals with sleep difficulties [32]. High carbohydrate intake may also be associated with longer REM (dream stage) sleep, which supports emotional regulation and memory. On the other hand, low-carb intake appears to promote deep sleep, which is essential for physical recovery and feeling well-rested [31]. However, consuming large amounts of sugar or refined carbs late at night can lead to blood sugar spikes and crashes, which often disrupt sleep [33].
Melatonin: Your Body’s Sleep Signal
Melatonin is your body’s natural signal that it’s time to sleep. This hormone is produced in the brain in response to darkness and helps regulate your internal 24-hour clock. As we age, melatonin production tends to decline. During perimenopause and menopause, this drop is often more pronounced due to falling oestrogen and progesterone levels. Sleep can also be disrupted by hot flashes, night sweats, and anxiety, making melatonin even more relevant.
Melatonin supplements may help reset disrupted sleep-wake cycles in menopausal women, supporting both sleep quality and mood. If your body isn’t producing enough naturally, small supplemental doses can sometimes help. A starting dose of 0.3 to 1 mg taken 30 to 60 minutes before bed is often sufficient, though higher doses should be used cautiously and under medical supervision. High doses or prolonged use can lead to side effects such as grogginess, vivid dreams, or daytime drowsiness. Melatonin may also interact with medications like blood thinners, antidepressants, or diabetes treatments, so it’s important to consult a healthcare professional before use.
For long-term support, consider nutrients that boost melatonin production naturally. Tryptophan-rich complex carbohydrates in the evening, can encourage the body’s own production of melatonin and serotonin.
Working with Your Cortisol Rhythm
If you’re struggling with sleep during or after menopause, high cortisol could be playing a role. Cortisol is the body’s primary stress hormone. It naturally rises in the morning to help you wake up and drops at night to allow for restful sleep. But during menopause, this rhythm can become disrupted due to both stress and hormonal changes, such as shifts in follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH), estrone, and adrenaline-related hormones. This can result in elevated cortisol levels at night, making it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep [38].
Research shows that elevated nighttime cortisol can delay sleep onset, cause frequent awakenings, and reduce overall sleep quality [39]. Restoring a balanced cortisol rhythm is essential for better rest.
You can support healthy cortisol patterns by focusing on a few lifestyle strategies. First, aim to keep blood sugar levels steady throughout the day—don’t skip meals, and include a mix of whole grains, lean proteins, vegetables, and healthy fats at each meal. Avoid sugar and refined carbs, especially in the evening, and limit caffeine after early afternoon. Alcohol can also interfere with sleep and raise cortisol levels, so consider reducing intake.
Prioritize getting at least seven to eight hours of restful sleep each night, since sleep deprivation can drive cortisol even higher. Gentle stress-reduction techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing, yoga, journaling, or spending time in nature can also be helpful. If you exercise regularly, try to do moderate-intensity workouts earlier in the day. In the evening, a relaxed walk can be a great way to unwind—especially if you’ve spent the day in front of a screen.
Keeping a consistent sleep-wake schedule also supports your natural cortisol rhythm. Going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends, can make a big difference.
Natural Strategies for Better Sleep
Improving sleep during menopause doesn’t require a complete life overhaul. Small, consistent changes can go a long way. Try to have dinner at least three to four hours before bedtime to give your body time to digest and prevent cortisol spikes. Include complex carbohydrates in your evening meal to support the production of sleep-promoting hormones like melatonin.
Certain nutrients—such as magnesium, vitamin D, potassium, calcium, B vitamins, vitamin K2, zinc and low-dose melatonin (only to establish a sleep-wake cycle)—can help support your nervous system and sleep regulation, especially if you’re deficient in any of them. Limit stimulants like caffeine and alcohol, especially in the second half of the day. Creating a calming evening routine can also help you wind down; a warm bath, gentle stretches, or herbal tea can signal your body that it’s time to rest.
Lastly, make sure your sleep environment is working for you. A cool, dark, and quiet bedroom supports deep, restorative sleep—something your body and mind truly need during this transitional phase.
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